Jenny Sanford!

I just read a good article...This woman Jenny is such an inspiration to how Women should react to an unfaithful husband.

Here is an exerpt:

I think”—she chooses her words carefully—“my husband has got some issues that he needs to work on, about happiness and what happiness means. You wish it wouldn’t come to a crisis like this, but I think when a lot of men get to this midpoint in life, they start asking questions that they probably should have asked a long time ago.” A former investment banker and a stay-at-home, full-time mother, Sanford doesn’t share her husband’s angst. “Midlife aging is different for men than for women,” she says. “Mark is worried about what his next job is. He worries about making money, running for office again, his legacy. I know my legacy is my children. I don’t worry about that.”

She is married to the Governor of South Carolina. Her husband admitted to an affair. She has handled this so gracefully...

I like her words above where she said "a lot of men start asking questions that they probably should have asked a long time ago". I SO AGREE WITH THIS!

Ladies ask your spouse questions about you, about his feelings, about your marriage! Don't take anything for granted. Part of having a successful marriage is trying to anticipate before the bomb drops. Having a feeling and not ignoring it....be bold in your marriage. If there is something you are not quite sure of bring it out in the open. Ask questions!!!!!!! Make your spouse talk to you about his feelings.

Read the whole article...it really is interesting. I've linked it here:

http://www.style.com/vogue/feature/2009/08/jenny-sanford/

Ruth