Friday, September 11, 2009

Why Oh Why do Women Envy?




I attended last night a fashion show at Neiman Marcus! We had lots of fun! My hubby was a great sport. After much prodding he joined me. At first he said "no", then he said "I will wait for you in the car"...then as I am sitting in the store waiting for the show to begin I called him and said "please join me, I don't want to enjoy this by myself"..... He did join me after that! So sweet! Cause you see... He knows I love fashion shows! I've been going to them most of my life....Thank God for the Galleria...cause they have them each year.

Of course, Chris was there with Leah so I wasn't really alone...but then again anytime He is not with me "I am alone"...... He is my best friend and we have lots of fun!

Anyway.....as I stood in line at first to grab my bag of goodies, I watched Women of all sizes, all colors, all nationalities and of all ages! I listened in on many conversations.....one thing we all had in common was the love of fashion.....

I watched as Women sized up every other woman that they came into contact with. By contact, I mean as she walked by..... I noticed that when a Real beautiful woman passed by...how many looked at her and took mental notes.....some smirked at her of course... it was all in the face. Have you noticed that some Women can actually Smirk without making a sound? I had a blast just watching and deciphering looks.....

As we were sitting waiting for the shoe, handbag, jewelry show to begin.....(we had great seats), the models began to arrive.... Talk about beautiful....and what fabulous legs! Some women in the crowd immediately perked up! I'm sure every women in the room was thinking WOW! Wish I looked like her.....!!! I thought "Oh to be young again"! At 49, I just wish I had that flawless face and young looking skin!

My point here is.... there were so many envious looks going on last night. Many women criti-sizing (sizing up). Why do Women do this? Its not very attractive.....Do they not realize that it shows on their faces? When I come across a beautiful women and have an opportunity to speak to her I tell her how beautiful she is....we should always compliment each other. If you notice....most women don't compliment each other. Its very rare. Women that are insecure don't compliment other women....that's the bottom line. Women that are envious tend to be moody and one day greet you and the next day ignore you.

I love Women! I have a desire in my heart to share the Love of God with all Women. I want Women to feel secure in their own skin. To feel loved no matter what. To enhance their inner beauty...to be open and honest with each other. To never be intimidated by another Woman. Let's love one another as God loves us. If you were to walk into a room full of gorgeous Women, how would you feel? What story would your face tell?

Lord, help us to not cut each other down......allow us to always encourage one another and "Show Me How To Love like You have Loved me! Amen!

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